Self-confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. How can anyone see how awesome you are if you cant see it yourself.

Stop seeking approval or validation and comparing yourself to others. Being confident in yourself will make you more attractive and confident.

One of the worst things you can do to really deflate your confidence is to compare yourself other people. Comparing yourself to someone else who might be better at communicating or conversation won’t do anything for you … it most likely will do the opposite. You might feel angry or jealous. We’re all on different levels of learning and it’s so easy to see someone else’s final product, but we don’t know how much work went into themselves.

We compare ourselves to others in an attempt to make accurate evaluations of ourselves.

Comparing yourself to others doesn’t help you attain your goals of becoming a good communicator. Thinking or obsessing about how someone else is a better communicator, or is more successful than you will zap your motivation, reduce your chances of completing your goal and kill positivity. Body language, your face, demeanor, Tone

The way you carry yourself, how you react to a situation and your presence in a room will tell a lot about you to others. Your demeanor, more than your accomplishments, your intelligence and appearance, matters a lot. The way you carry yourself, especially with confidence makes you attractive.

Nonverbal communication, sometimes reveals more than our words.

Through our nonverbal cues we unknowingly communicate a great deal of information about ourselves and what we’re thinking. The movements we make, the position in which we hold our bodies, the expressions we wear on our faces and the nonverbal qualities of our speech – all contribute to how others view us, and how attractive we seem to others.

Be more attractive by Improving Your Nonverbal Skills and Read Body Language

Our nonverbal communication—our facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, and tone of voice—that speak the loudest.

Here Are 4 Body Language Strategies to make you more Attractive:

1. Be aware of what you’re feeling and your own body language

2. Pay attention to what you’re saying, the words you’re using and actions

3. Maintain eye contact, but not too much.

4. Take a breather if you’re overwhelmed by stress.

If you want to become a better communicator, it’s important to become more sensitive to the body language and nonverbal cues of others, especially your own.

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